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Part One: The Short Term. ''What's Happening to Me?''; Introduction: Lukas's Story. 1. What Happens to the Survivor After Someone Commits Suicide. 2. Emotional Reactions to Suicide. 3. A Family's Story. Part Two: The Long Run. ''What's Going to Happen to Me?'' 4. The Bargain: A Deal We Make with Life. 5. Bargains: The Long Good-bye. 6. Bargains: Scapegoating. 7. Bargains: ''I Am Guilty; I Am a Victim.'' 8. Bargains: Cutting Off. 9. Bargains: A Miscellany. 10. The Saddest Bargain: ''Because You Died, I'll Die.'' 11. The Grand Bargain: Silence. 12. Reactions to an Adolescent's Suicide. Part Three: Giving Help and Getting Help. Listening and Talking. 13. Responding. 14. Giving Help by Listening. 15. Getting Help by Talking. 16. Talking with Children. 17. Living with Suicide - Some Stories About Responding. Epilogue: Lukas's Story - A Personal Summary. The Future. Appendix: Where to Find Self-Help Groups. Bibliography. Notes. Index.